Tuesday, June 26, 2007

Tell him how to - Make love all night!

Courtesy: http://www.icame.com. Please follow the link at the bottom to read more on this topic.

For every man who has ever pleased a woman all night long, there are probably twenty other men who wish they could do the same. People tend to think that once a man has an orgasm, the sex must naturally end. However, that does not have to be the case at all. If a man can learn to master his penis as skillfully as he attempts to learn his lover's body, he will be able to sustain an erection all night long. The best part is that he will not have to deprive himself of pleasure to do so. He can have as many orgasms as he wants without getting tired or spent – and any man can do this so long as he follows this advice.

The first step in achieving multiple male orgasms so that sex can last all night is for a man to let his penis know who is boss. Contrary to popular belief, penises do not control men – or at least they shouldn’t. A man is responsible for his penis and he just needs to learn how to master it. You may think that it is difficult if not impossible for a man to control his penis, but that could not be further from the truth. All that a man needs to do to build up his control is to exercise. That does not mean that he has to spend extra time at the gym. It means that he has to spend some time working out his pubococcygeus muscle – which will be referred to as the PC muscle from this point forward for obvious reasons.

The PC muscle is the muscle that a man squeezes when he has to hold in his urine. This is also the muscle that unconsciously contracts when a man ejaculates. The easiest way for a man to find and isolate his PC muscle is to pretend that he is urinating and to try to stop the flow. Once a man learns where his PC muscle is and how he can control it, he will be one step closer to achieving all night sex.

For three weeks, the man should flex his PC muscle for 20 reps. He should do this three times a day on three days every week. It is important for him to make sure that he isolates his PC muscles from the thigh and buttocks muscles while he does this exercise. If he tightens all of the muscles in that general area, the PC muscle will not receive the workout it needs to strengthen itself.

By repeating this exercise and eventually tightening the PC muscle for longer periods of time, a man will be able to control his penis. His control over his penis will also make it easy for him to control his erections. This technique does not take much time to master and it will yield amazing results once a man is in tune with his PC muscle. Before long, he will be able to have sex all night and only stop when he and his partner are ready to call it quits.


Wednesday, March 07, 2007

50 Clues - Your Partner is Cheating!

Courtesy: Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach

Read The SignsSome of these signs of cheating are “tongue in cheek” while others are tell-tale signs that commonly appear with a cheating husband or cheating wife.

  1. You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you’ve had a vasectomy.
  2. Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wife or girlfriend you are.)
  3. Your cheating husband or wife stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.
  4. Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn’t tell you about it.
  5. He leaves the house in the morning smelling like Irish Spring and returns in the evening smelling like Safeguard.
  6. She joins the gym and begins a rigorous workout program.
  7. She buys a cell phone and doesn’t let you know.
  8. He Sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to his office.
  9. The cheating husband carries condoms, and you are on the pill.
  10. Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.
  11. Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.
  12. He becomes “accusatory,” asking if you are being true to him, usually out of guilt.
  13. Raises hypothetical questions such as, “Do you think it’s possible to love more than one person at a time?”
  14. He buys himself new underwear.
  15. He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.
  16. The cheating wife stops wearing her wedding ring.
  17. Has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.
  18. Has unexplained scratches or bruises on his or her neck or back.
  19. Suddenly wants to try new love techniques.
  20. He/she fairly suddenly stops having sex with you.
  21. He/she suddenly wants more sex, more often.
  22. Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.
  23. Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.
  24. You find out by accident he or she took vacation day or personal time off from work - but supposedly worked on those days.
  25. Shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.
  26. Spouse’s co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.
  27. Has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.
  28. Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.
  29. He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress’s house and had to eat the dinner you prepared when he got home.
  30. Your spouse is away from home, either nights or on trips, more than previously.
  31. His/her clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. You see lipstick on your husband’s shirt.
  32. The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.
  33. You find items of intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that you did not give your spouse.
  34. Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is “touchy” and easily moved to anger.
  35. You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.
  36. He/she loses attention in the activities in the home.
  37. Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.
  38. He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.
  39. She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.
  40. She has a “glow” about her.
  41. A typical erratic behavior.
  42. He sneaks out of the house.
  43. She sleeps with her purse by the bed
  44. She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.
  45. He tells you can get hold of him at a different telephone number.
  46. He or She comes straight home and takes an immediate shower.
  47. Your spouse seems bored. Bored with you, with job, with kids, with hobbies, with life in general.
  48. Your spouse seems to want danger or thrills in his/her life.
  49. Your spouse deletes the internet history and cookies on the computer to cover his or her tracks.
  50. Your spouse is indifferent to family events like birthdays and holidays.